Hehehe................. ini "bocorannya" dear.
- Give her a hug every day, ingat.......... EVERYDAY !!
- Say "I Love You" at the end of every phone conversation, and mean it!!!
- Ask about her day
- Take the kids for a walk (or drive). Alone time does wonders for refreshment.
- Make her favorite drink (whether it be coffee, tea, soda, or martini......eh, yg ini jangan!)
- Make dinner every now and again (or bring home take out without being asked)
- Record her favorite television shows (or get Season Passes to them on TiVo)
- Paint her toe nails (or fingers. She might have a preference)
- Let her win an argument (kan dia emang win, nggak usah berusaha menang deh)
- Pick up your dirty laundry off the floor (hehehe...........)
- Play footsie in bed
- Snuggle
- Offer to help her carry the groceries
- Give her a weekend to herself (dananya sekalian, yg buanyaaaaak, unlimited)
- Bring home unexpected small gifts (asyiiiiik............berlian aja, small kan?)
- Comment on her new hair cut (yg bagus ya commentnya)
- Bring her tissues when she's sick (pijitin n disayang2 juga)
- Offer to watch the movie of her choice (he'em!)
- Clean the kitchen (haaaa.........seru tuh)
- Spend a weekend away (again, this time she gets the house to herself)
- Call during the day just to say Hi (and say I love u, I miss u, dll)
- Hold her hand when your out and about (that is, if you can get it away from the children)
- Smile the first time you see her each day (with full of love).
- Fold a load of laundry. Or start a new load in the washer. Or do both.
- Trust that she knows where to go for the party next weekend (got and printed the directions).
- Listen when she's trying to tell you she's upset (bener nih, jangan malah cuek)
- Let her take an afternoon nap (jangan ah, pusing, gak enak afternoon nap itu)
- Pick up milk on the way home (or whatever grocery item is always "empty")
- Offer to wash her car (yes! setujuuuuuuu....)
- Bring home a favorite flower (or bouquet, or.......... diamond)
- Take out some favorite photos of the both of you and reminisce
- Give her a back rub (or massage her feet. Or shoulders. Or really, whatever she likes)
- Let her sleep (at luxury place) in this Saturday. (oh my........)
- And then make her favorite breakfast (or go out to a restaurant for it)
- Ask about one of her biggest wishes or dreams (and reach it for her! mauuuuuuuu..............)
- Leave a love note in her purse/car/wallet
- Buy a coffee shop gift card (if that's her thing) and leave it for her in the morning
- If you empty the toilet paper roll, get and place the new one
- Windex the bathroom mirror
- Take the dry cleaning in (setujuuuuuuu)
- Never underestimate the power of a good night kiss (tul)
- Clean off the dinner table dishes (plissss)
- Ask her to go for a walk with you
- Talk to each other... have a conversation about something meaningful or nothing in particular (iya banget)
- Put the kids to bed (ngangguk2)
- Hang that picture/shelf/ candle holder you always meant to
- Bring home a gift certificate for a pedicure or massage (massage ajah, gak suka pedicure)
- Fill her car up with gas (and wash the windshield)
- Hershey Chocolate Kisses (get creative)
- Zip up or button the back of her dress or shirt
- Gently place a blanket over her if she falls asleep in the afternoon or on the couch in the evening (penuh cinta ya......)
- Go to the pharmacy for her medication when she's sick (urutin n peluk sayang aja, gak mau obat)
- Bathe the kids
- Buy her "girlie" shampoo, conditioner, and soap for the shower
- Make dinner reservations (complete with arrangements for a baby sitter)
- Don't complain if she's having one of those long phone conversations
- Offer to clean up her computer screen and/or keyboard
- Take a picture of her favorite place and send it to her (or leave it in a card on the table)
- Whisper sweet nothings into her ear (hahaha.............)
- Feed the pets
- Run her a bubble bath. With candles. (yuhuuuu..........)
- Offer her your jacket if it is cold.
- Rub lotion on her hands (and hell anywhere else you want)
- Give her space when she needs it
- Ask about her work (and yes, if she stays home--ask about the children, the housework, etc)
- Make a mix tape (or playlist)
- Send funny e-mails. Either share a funny remark, send love notes, or even URLs for the funniest videos you've ever seen. It just means you are thinking of her. And she of you.
- Shut the door sometimes when you are in the restroom
- Hang up your coat after you come in (and the shoes, put them away too)
- Warm and pull up the car to the restaurant/store door if it is cold or raining or windy
- Buy her earrings. Or a necklace. A ring. Something inexpensive, but fun/beautiful/ reminiscent of you
- Let her cry if she needs to
- Help get that item off the "high shelf"
- Rub her back as you pass by her cooking dinner (or reading e-mail. It is the touch that counts)
- Clean up the clutter in the living room/kitchen/ bathroom- -any room. Just spruce it up tonight. She'll notice
- Come home early
- Offer to cook her dinner (not on the grill. In the kitchen please)
- Pull out the wedding glasses and toast to your "togetherness"
- Sit next to her on the couch
- Look her in the eye and tell her how you feel about her
- Look up her Favorites or Wish Lists at an online store... and buy her something small from the list
- Take charge for the evening--corralling the children for bedtime, bathing, reading, television, etc.
- Ask her what one small thing you could do to make her life easier at that moment and do it
- Offer to paint a room the color of her choice
- Give up the television remote for one night
- Pack her lunch for the day
- Call her favorite girlfriend to schedule a surprise her with a girls' night/day out and about
- Bake her a cake/pie/muffin/ favorite dessert
- Remember a special moment you had together, talk about it, discuss it, and share it with her (this can just be done verbally, in a letter... anything that you want to do)
- Tell her when she looks good. As in, "Hey, you look great in that." Or if she is wearing your favorite perfume, mention it.
- Fluff her pillow before bed
- Next time you are at a party or social gathering--give her wink from across the room. Or a knowing glance. Or a grin. Some sort of shared thought or expression that the two of you can share
- Find out how she likes her eggs and/or coffee. This can be valuable information.
- Clean the toilet(s)
- Take her picture when you think she looks beautiful. Even if she doesn't want you to.
- Open the car/restaurant/ store door for her
- Let her pick the music in the car next time your driving together
- Remind her why you married her.
- Find a way to make her laugh. Really laugh. It does wonders for the soul.
- Tell her you love her. And mean it.
- Remember to take out the garbage
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